I'm still trying to get my ducks in a row to do this theoretical donor embryo cycle in a couple of months. One of the things on my to-do list was to call a reproductive rights attorney. So I did.
She's local (very close to both us and the donor parents, in fact) and she's FABULOUS. She's an attorney, therapist and adoptive mom. A past president of the local RESOLVE chapter. Has run lots of the RESOLVE support groups. And did I mention she was AWESOME. I lurve her.
I told her we might be a bit further down the contract path than most people. She offered to look over what we can up with together and see if she could work with it. Thereby saving us $250. She'll look it over at no charge so why not?
I also asked about her adoption services. She told me a bit about that. And recommended a local adoption agency that she really likes. And the Berzerkely Parents seem to like as well.
I called said agency, loved them as well, and we're signed up for an informational workshop next month. We are getting a baby or two dammit. However that happens. Just trying to be open to the possibilities at this point. 2007 is definitely going to be a much better year. One way or another.
Awesome, AWESOME news Millie!!
I am SO very excited for you both!!
So, if things go according to plan, what time frame would you be looking at for the donor embryo cycle?
all the best,
Nilla
Posted by: 'Nilla @ Vanilla Dreams | Tuesday, 22 August 2006 at 12:15
Wow, she sounds fabulous and you seem to be right on track with great prospects. You will have a baby or two dammit!!
Good luck!
Posted by: Demeter | Tuesday, 22 August 2006 at 13:35
It's all coming together! This attorney sounds perfect - it's important to be surrounded by people you trust in such a delicate matter. Can't wait to hear all the details.
good luck!
Posted by: Sue | Tuesday, 22 August 2006 at 15:23
Awesome news. It's good to hear some hope! Very excited for you and the mister.
Posted by: Bonnie | Tuesday, 22 August 2006 at 16:40
Wow how awesome, totally agree getting everything going at once!
Am I right - in the US you can adopt and be pregnant at the same time?
Posted by: Sparkle | Tuesday, 22 August 2006 at 17:43
Woo hoo!!!
Posted by: Louise | Tuesday, 22 August 2006 at 18:13
I think this is so amazingly wonderful. A two-pronged attack on infertility-very nice!
Posted by: Bebe | Tuesday, 22 August 2006 at 20:46
Up, up and away!!!!
Posted by: Pamplemousse | Wednesday, 23 August 2006 at 02:31
Happy for you!
Posted by: daysgoby | Wednesday, 23 August 2006 at 03:06
This is good news. I likes me a plan.
Posted by: Suz | Wednesday, 23 August 2006 at 05:30
Yay for a solid plan! I'm so excited for you...
Posted by: Lynnette | Wednesday, 23 August 2006 at 05:57
Yay for 2007! Dawn at thiswomanswork.com had a great discussion about persuing both treatment and adoption at the same time--it spans several posts but http://www.thiswomanswork.com/2006/08/12/treatment-and-adoption/ is in the middle of it. It was a very thought-provoking discussion. I wish you luck on all fronts!
Posted by: wavybrains | Wednesday, 23 August 2006 at 10:28
Amen to that.
Posted by: pixi | Wednesday, 23 August 2006 at 11:39
I'm happy for you!! It's all progress!
Posted by: baggage | Wednesday, 23 August 2006 at 11:53
Rock on - if you get the nod from Bezerkley it's all good, he he!
Posted by: T | Wednesday, 23 August 2006 at 12:43
I sense electricity in the air!
Posted by: Lut C. | Wednesday, 23 August 2006 at 13:08
ooh, you might get knocked up and adopt too? There might be babies coming out of your ears soon!
Posted by: Red Headed Momma | Wednesday, 23 August 2006 at 18:09
It felt so good when we decided to go down as many paths as we could. There is a baby waiting for you down one of them!
Posted by: fisher queen | Thursday, 24 August 2006 at 07:38
ROll on 2007 is what I say. Time for a lucky break.
Posted by: thalia | Thursday, 24 August 2006 at 07:42
I love your attitude. Your determination is inspirational. I hope, hope, hope that things go your way soon...
Posted by: PBfish | Thursday, 24 August 2006 at 13:33
You have ALL kinds of irons in the fire and options to explore! That is wonderful.
Posted by: Jan1902 | Thursday, 24 August 2006 at 14:20
Oh, M! I feel all excited and ready to celebrate for you guys already, so come on big '07! :-)
Posted by: Milenka | Friday, 25 August 2006 at 17:49
M-Holy Cow girl! I have been away for a while and decided to check up on you. Sounds like you are going full steam ahead with both! May 2007 bring you and hubbie many many wonderful suprises.
Take care-L
Posted by: Laura | Saturday, 26 August 2006 at 08:57
This is fantastic news Millie. I am glad to see things moving forward! And if WAH (did I get that right?) should become a normal pattern, I would LOVE to meet up with you for lunch!!
Love,
Fran
Posted by: Fran | Saturday, 26 August 2006 at 11:09
Please let us know how the workshop goes. Great to hear that you are having a good attorney experience. :)
Posted by: Tiffanni | Saturday, 26 August 2006 at 22:35
Awesome planning!! I am so excited for you and am so hopeful that things will be turning your way now!!!
Thinking about you always!
Roni
Posted by: Roni | Monday, 28 August 2006 at 09:25