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Tuesday, 25 April 2006


oh sweetie - that totally sux. my heart is breaking for you. and for the mister. and for your dogs as well.

at a minimum, you now have some closure. not the closure you want.

at least your tech was able to find the ectopic. mine never did - so i still wonder if i took methotrexate for nothing.

jeesh - i just wish there was something i could do for you beyond shedding virtual tears and sending virtual hugs and drinking a red stripe in real life for you.


i am so so sorry. i wish i had more words, better words. hell, i wish i could make it all better. my heart breaks for you, sweetie. just breaks.

My friend, I share that pain in your heart. I'm so, so sorry.

Please take care of yourself.

Much love to you and mister.

When you're up to talking you know how to reach me.


I am so incredibly sorry. I was hoping with all my might that this wasn't the outcome:(

Oh, Millie, I'm so sad for you. All along I wanted to believe that that there was still hope. I'm sorry things turned out this way. It's got to be unbelievably hard.

fuckityfuckityfuckity fuck.

that sucks.

Oh, Millie. I'm so, so sorry. I wish the ending were different. Please take care of yourself.

I just can't even find words to tell you how my heart breaks for you both.

I'm here, anytime. ANYTHING you need, ever.

I'm so sorry.

Millie, I'm so sorry. I wish that this could have ended differently for you.

Millie, I just don't know what to say. I'm sad for you, and frustrated, and outraged at the universe. I don't understand. I don't understand why the same people have to suffer bad luck over and over again.

Please don't hesitate to email me if you just want another cyber-shoulder to cry on. I'm here, even if I'm not as visible as before.

Oh Millie!... I just called you (before reading this post) but totally understand if you're not up to talking... Know that I am here when you're ready... You are a strong woman my dear! You and the Mr will get past this and you WILL have the baby that you BOTH deserve.

Please give the Mr. my LOVE and a Boat Load of that for you too as well.



I'm so sorry honey :( (if you want a good movie to watch try kiss kiss bang bang) thinking of you

My dear Millie, there are no words.

I am so, so sorry.

Love to you and the Mister.

It's so fucking unfair. I'm just so sorry.

Oh sweetie, I am so sorry. I am relieved you are safe and that hopefully this won't turn into a health emergency. I am heartbroken at your loss...I know it too well. I wish I could help in some way. I am here if you need to talk, yell, whatever...


Sending some cyber love and healing thoughts. I am so sorry for your loss- I know it sounds trite and doesn't begin to express the empathy I have for you, but it's all I can think of.

Oh, no. What devastating news. You are in many people's thoughts.

I am so very sorry, my friend. I was so hoping for different news. Two ectopics? That is just too odd. Gosh, I am so very sorry.

Mostly a lurker here from your old stomping grounds (aka, CH). I've been following your recent story with excitement-- someone was finally getting good news in IF land, and I was happy to have "been" a part of it.... and then this happened. Have a good cry, but know that someone in the Southern part of Heaven is thinking of you tonight.

I am so sorry.

Everything I could say sounds trite, but I so wish things were different.

Oh Millie I am so so sorry. There just aren't any good words for this. You all take care of each other, ok?


I'm so sorry for you and the mister. We will be thinking of you here.

Oh fuck no! I'm so pissed at the world right now!!

I'm so glad your doctor is being proactive - you should not have to deal with this again.

I totally back you on sending an email - maybe the Mister could do it?


I'm so sad for you I can't even say. So damn sorry.

I am so very sorry millie. I wish there was something I could do to help; these words seem so inadequate.

I am so very sorry. I was really rooting for you, and praying for a miracle. I am so sorry that you have had to ride this awful roller coaster. Blessings,

Oh I am so sorry. I wish there was something that I could do..call if you need to talk day or night. So sad...I know. I know the story from last time. Hug your husband and yourself for me and know that I am thinking of you guys.

Oh, God, Millie. I am so sorry.

I'm so sorry, Millie, so sorry.


I am so devastated for you. Just so fucking sorry that you have to go through this again. My heart grieves for you and the mister.

oh m...

i've written three different responses and started over again. mostly i'm writing profanity. i'm so sorry. i'm so sad. i don't get it...

sending love and support to you and dh.


This is a horrible outcome, I feel awful for you.

The only thing good thing to come out of it will be if the docs. step-daughter can help you or the clinic take you up on your offer to help organise them.

With regards to family, maybe you can email one person who you're closest to and ask them to pass on your [bad] news - and to let everyone know you're not cool to be talking about it at the moment? Might be a good way of getting the understanding and space that you need.

Take care.

I'm so sorry, Millie...call me if you want to talk...

M- I just can't believe this happened again - to go through it once is horrible and to have to go through it a second time just plain sucks!

I wanted to write something poetic but am so angry about this happening to someone as caring, wonderful and truly born to be a mommy a second time is incomprehensible. It just plain sucks.


PS Thanks for the blog etiquette info email - sorry for my mistake. Please give yourself and Mr. Millie a big hug for me. Please call or let me know if you would like to get together. Sheez this now means your Resolve Group has a 60% IVF ectopic rate - INCREDIBLE!!!

I am so, so sorry, though relieved that this resolution occurred without any physical harm to you. My heart goes out to the both of you.

I'm so sorry, Millie. It just shouldn't be this hard, ever.

Oh no. I am so sorry that you are going through this. Life is so fucking unfair. I'm glad that at least your medical team has been on top of everything so that you're not placed at unnecessary risk, physically.

I am so sorry about this Millie. I was hoping that it wouldn't happen.

Hugs to you and Mr.

Oh no, I'm so sorry.

I am so so sorry. I have stuff I want to say to you, but not now. Now is a time to grieve your little embie and all the dreams that it carried with it.

But, later, I will tell all the things that are on my mind. fighting thoughts, good thoughts.

Love you

Unfair, unfair, unfair! why, why why? Sending love and support.....Aames

I'm so sorry. I was really rallying for you.


I'm so sorry Millie. I know it was kind of indicated on Monday, but I know that there was still hope then, and now there isn't. What causes those longed-for embryos to attach in the wrong place, anyway? Someone should tell them there's a much better joint down the road.

I'm sorry, and I continue to think that you are amazing.

It takes something mighty sorrowful -- this, in fact -- to drive me to comment, since I'm one of those readers who gets embarassed as soon as I start typing.
This is such sad news. If it is at all offset by the relief of a certain diagnosis, that's only because the stakes are so high. You know at this point that all you can do, and all you need to do, is to tend to yourself. Of course that's already asking a good bit.
Most of us can't help in any concrete way, and that's frustrating. I'm a few thousand miles away, so can only hope that my sympathy and solidarity, added to the pile, mean something.

I'm so very sorry, dear Millie. This is so sad and so wrong.

Oh no. And it really is not fair that you can't even have a drink when you need it the most! I wish I had some comforting words, but nothing I say can make you feel better. Try to hang on!

Millie - I wish things could have ended differently for you - DH and I are so sorry that you're having to go through this. Thinking of you both, Anoufx

So, so sorry Millie - just unbelievably sad for you.

For now you only need to worry about you and your husband. Don't be afraid to tell people what you do (or don't) need. If it's easier to send an email, just do it - ask everyone to respect your privacy right now. You need to take care of you now. People will understand.

I was afraid this would happen but sadly, you confirmed it. You are so brave and corageous. I hope you can ease the pain with the support of your family. I am so sorry.

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